Letters

Isn't it fantastic how unstereotypical we are? This group of letters proves how rich our little corner of Christianity thrives on diversity in unity.  
 

Re: “Demographics: Optimistic/Pessimistic”  

If we really believed in Hell like it's described in the Word, we wouldn't be sitting comfortably in the four walls of the church or our homes and attending worship a couple of times a week when we feel like it.  We should be out in the community/world preaching and telling people every day how they must be/can be born again.  We should be passionate about bringing the gospel to lost man in these last days. We can't wait for them to come to us; we must take the Gospel to them.  It seems that those who we believe do not have the whole truth are doing a much better job of “reaching” people than we are.  The field is ripe for harvest, but the laborers are surely few and lacking in zeal.  I preach to myself as well as you when I say these things. 

Name Withheld, Texas 
 

Re: “Plastic Surgery”  

I hope we meet these confessions with mercy and compassion rather than judgment. I have to admit, if they had a surgical procedure that would remove (in an hour or less) this 100 extra pounds I carry I know the temptation would be very strong so I am no one to pass any judgment on anyone.  

I believe one of God's purposes in our dress standards is to promote healing of the wounds females in our society often carry. When you refrain from putting on make up, or jewelry, you are saying to your spirit, “I am beautiful. I don't need a coat of paint, or plastic extensions to my ears.” 

Richard Ferguson, New York 
 

Re: “The Big Question”  

In the current issue you cite the big question as, “Who is the best presidential running mate?” Intrigued, I clicked on the question only to find that the big question had morphed into ““Who is the best presidential candidate currently running? It proceeded to feature a rehash of the current three (two Democrats and a Republican) with a brief mention of the also-rans. 

I would have been very interested in what my fellow responders would have said on the first announced question. Not having noticed it in past issues, I did not respond then. But I do have an opinion. So here goes... 

My personal favorite would be Mike Huckabee as John McCain's running mate. However, I do not see that happening. I believe electability is going to factor in favor of a ticket perceived as “inclusive.” My guess would be that there will at least be serious consideration given to Condoleeza Rice as the Republican running mate and I would not be surprised if she ends up being the choice.  

Marjorie Kinnee, Michigan 
 

Re: “Plastic Surgery”  

I am not condemning anyone who has had plastic surgery.  But, I do take issue with people who approve of cosmetic surgery but disapprove of cosmetic products.  How is makeup (a cheap, temporary and risk-free product) wrong, while cosmetic surgery (which is an expensive, permanent and risky change of the appearance God gave you) okay?   

The problem I have with most standards is that they are inconsistent.  Don't preach against rated R movies and then let violent and graphic video games get a pass.  I would have to say, that would be straining a gnat and swallowing a camel, to borrow the words of my friend.   

BTW, glad to see your readership is so high.  But, I agree that a discussion forum area of your website would be a great addition.   

Mary Leterrioli, Michigan 

(Editor's Note: The biggest downside to a forum/message board is the policing of ugly comments. With an all-volunteer staff, we're already stretched to the limit of our current format. Does anyone have any ideas how we could make this feasible?) 

Re: “of sex and ............”  

This is so misunderstood by women and more so by men who are blessed not to be addicted--I have been addicted since a very young age and fight it minute by minute even at 53 yrs of age; women think the church tries to hold them 'down' while thinking of their own 'need' to show off their beauty--the eyes filled with Holy Ghost power is more beautiful than the body ever could hope to be. To the man addicted, one flash of flesh is a nail in his coffin, so hard to get others to understand. 

J. Williams, Texas 
 

Re: “Letters”  

I love this website and have since I discovered it whenever that was.  I have referred many people here.  Why?  Because I think it's relevant.  I think it opens discussions, whether you agree or disagree with an author's perspective.  I think it's opened up the perception of Pentecostals about church in general and their walk with God specifically.  I love the mix of writing--serious, not so, creative, teaching.  I love the blogs.  It's interesting to see what's happening in someone else's life.   

As for the critics, you just go ahead and read something else if you like.  It's okay.  As for me, I'll stick to my favorite e-zine.  Kudos to the writers and editors who desire to be a catalyst of change.  You are doing a good thing. 

Kris Newman, Minnesota 
 

Re: “Choosing the Right Mate”  

I am in a relationship with a 38-year-old man who is a seeker and has strong character and wisdom. He would like to marry once I am strong and on my own two feet so that I choose to need him rather than need him in my vulnerable transition time. My daughter with special needs, age five, passed away six months ago. I am grieving her death. 

I am a 38 year old woman who has never been married, but has the desire to be married. I think God has called me to China for a time, and when I am to go is unknown.

I want to do God's will. I love this man. We care for each other, and he shows that he is committed to me. A woman who has godly counsel says that she can see God blessing our relationship. But there has also been an area of struggle to abide in God's Word.

There is other sensitive information to help you better understand our situation.

Do you have any insight or questions/response that can help me gain perspective? And though God's people seek God and to know His will, how much is my decision to choose a husband? 

Thanks. 

Kathleen Chambers, Colorado 

(Editor's Note: You should look at the Gabby archives for an answer to your question, she is full of insight and wisdom!) 

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